Saturday 28 April 2012

Life- a chaos, the title suggests what you must have experienced umpteen number of times in your lives. Its a struggle, a sight of nuances, a confusion, A Stage To Commit Mistakes! We have always been taught, since the day we first stood on our own feet and took the first step, to be very careful so that we do not hurt ourselves or others.. All for the good of oneself and the society around us. 


But the truth is that we must commit mistakes. Mistakes are the instances where one can be oneself. Mistakes are committed unknowingly, and hence are an opportunity to understand and evaluate the outcomes of the activity done so as to be called a mistake.


Life is not a staged drama, where there are directors who guide and illustrate to the actors what needs to be done, when, where and how. Its a phenomenon where every individual has the right to feel and do and then realize whether it was the right thing to do or a mistake.


A human does not grow with age or by the number of wrinkles he has, or by the money he has earned, BUT he grows when he learns from his mistakes, and I believe that is what is called learning from his experiences. Its a wonderful feeling to realize your own mistake and then learn from it, and in the process, grow as a human being, as an individual.


Life is a chaos, very rightly said. You would not know what is going to happen in the next second, you can not predict what is going to happen. You can only make a guess!! All the confusion around causes you to commit mistakes, and that's when you lean what needs to be done. 
Let loose, Sit back and relax, Try to gain perfection in what you can; for example- loving someone, taking care of someone, finding time for what you love to do.... It is important to gain the hold of your overworked hearts and brains. 


I would say, if you did not commit a mistake you haven't even tried... And how can you expect the results if you haven't even tried... There is no such thing as 'perfect or perfection' so why waste time after it.. Do the things the way that makes you feel AWESOME!! And life, in turn, would be AMAZING!!


With that i would conclude it... Its a thought which I have had and wanted to share with you, since a very long time! Please feel free to drop in your valuable comments or suggestions!